Cohabitation and Relationship Quality
As marriage rates among U.S. adults decline, cohabiting unions rise. Within the last nine years alone, the number of cohabiting relationships in the U.S. has jumped by 29 percent, from 14 million in 2007 to 18 million in 2016.1) For many adults, cohabitation is not a just a precursor to marriage, but even more a substitute for marriage.2) However, cohabiting unions inherently differ from marital unions and tend to be of a poorer quality.
1. Relationship Stability and Closeness
Roles and expectations in cohabiting relationships tend to be ambiguous, therefore contributing to conflict.3) Cohabiting couples reported lower happiness and fairness when compared to married and re-married couples.4) According to the National Survey of Families and Households, cohabiters are 25 percent more likely to report relationship instability, and, correspondingly, more likely to report depression.5) According to a RAND analysis of the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, cohabiting couples were less likely to consolidate resources, had less intimacy, and reported a weaker relationship commitment.6) Cohabiting men were especially less certain about and less committed to their relationship than their female partners.7) This lack of stability is particularly harmful for children.8)
2. Violence
Women in cohabiting relationships are more likely than married or dating women to be the victims of violence or to perpetrate violence.9) Domestic violence in cohabiting unions tends to increase as the duration of the union increases.10)